So, as I mentioned previously, I had rationed my maternity pay so that I was able to stay off with Laura for 18 months instead of 12. But, all good things must come to an end, and back in September I began looking for an 'evenings & weekends' job so that Josh would be able to watch Laura after work and we wouldn't have to send her to daycare. It took me about a month and a half, but I was finally able to land a job waitressing at a small Chinese restaurant downtown. It's nice because the dinner shifts are only three hours, so I'm not away from home that long, but boy, it can get busy on the weekends, leaving my pregnant self exhausted. I am scheduled to work the lunch shift on Saturdays as well as dinner, which means Josh is in charge of Laura for pretty much the whole day. Yesterday was the first time, and it went a little something like this:
In the morning we took Laura to her swimming lessons, (I didn't swim because there wouldn't be enough time for me to change after), so Josh did the lesson with her. They actually did really well together, better than Laura has done so far this year.
After swimming lessons, we rushed back to get me to work, and then Josh took Laura to the grocery store. They came home to drop off the groceries and have some lunch and then went back out to get some more errands done. After they were done, they came back to drop the car off to me, and I noticed that Laura had blood all over her hand and clothes.... not exactly what I was hoping to see on Josh's first day looking after her...
"What happened? Why is there blood all over her?!"
"Oh. Laura got a nosebleed... or else it's pomegranate juice."
"What? This isn't pomegranate juice... and there is no blood on her face."
Upon closer inspection, the blood source seemed to be coming from her finger.
" Oh, I dunno then... I let her play with a measuring tape while we were waiting in the line-up for the car wash?"
Awesome. "Okay... well, for future reference, you probably shouldn't let her play with those, especially unsupervised."
Along with her bloody finger, Laura also had a runny nose. She was generally not in the best of spirits, so my boss, who had been monitoring the whole conversation told me I could go home early and just come back for the dinner shift. I happily agreed. The three hours I had been there I think I had served three tables, and there had only been a handful of take-out orders. She clearly didn't need me there.
So, we all went home together and I got to cuddle with my sick baby. I even had time to sneak in a short nap. Bonus. After I got home from the dinner shift, I asked Josh how the rest of their day went. He told me Laura ate for about two hours straight after I left.
"Oh, really? Good. What did you feed her?"
"Sunflower seeds."
"Oh? What else?"
"Nothing, really. She just ate about a cup of sunflower seeds."
"A cup?! Oh boy, that will make for some interesting poo tomorrow (and it did). Didn't you feed her any real dinner? Like meat or vegetables?"
"No... she was eating the sunflower seeds and just kept asking for more."
Oooookay, then. :S
So, Daddy's first Saturday was a bit of an adventure, but I'm sure he'll get the hang of it. He actually did a pretty good job holding down the fort on his own. The groceries were bought, floor got swept, and I think he even made time to scrub the toilet. <3
That's not too bad! I am impressed! And jealous. Those days are a long way off for me.
ReplyDeleteI was going to mention earlier that Laura seemed to be doing really well with Josh in the pool. And you looked comfy on your chair. :)
Hahaha, well we all survived!
ReplyDeleteJosh said the pool was warmer than usual; I'm sure that helped. :)