I had heard about a 3-day Potty Training Method I was interested in trying since I have grown lazy and tired of changing diapers (especially since in a few short months I will be starting all over again with 10+ diaper changes a day.) I wasn't sure that Laura was mentally ready yet, but I was pretty sure she could do it physically. Josh said, "We'll never know if she's ready or not if we dont try." So, I decided we would do the three day trial. It's three days, it can't be that bad, right? If she isn't into it, we could always try again later.
The method suggests putting them in underwear and pants, and learning their cues as to when they need to go. By putting them in underwear, they too can learn immediately when they are wet, and it is only supposed to take up to three days for them to associate it with the feeling of "having to go". We had sticker rewards for just sitting on the toilet, and marshmallow rewards for when she actually succeeded. Fool proof! ... as long as she actually wanted to do it.
Day 1:
Several peed in pairs of underwear/ pants, pretty much par for the course on Day 1.
Day 2:
I woke up feeling sick, which is always a drag when pregnant since you can't take any medication. By noon I was losing what little patience I had and getting frustrated by Laura's resistance to trying to go on the potty. I knew she had to poop, and she did give a few pushes while on the toilet, which were rewarded with marshmallows, but no success. Later, however, I caught her lining up for a squat and swooped her up to the toilet and we had success! I clapped and danced and gave her a whole handful of "marshos".
She didn't pee for the whole rest of the afternoon, which was bothersome to me because I felt terrible and just wanted to relax a little after knowing she had just peed and wouldn't need to go again for a while. But no such luck. I finally resorted to taking off her pants and undies so I would be able to tell immediately when she started to pee, which didn't end up being until around 5pm. I again swooped her up to the toilet so she could finish there and have a "success". She was again rewarded with marshos. After Josh got home I really needed to lie down and rest for a bit, and he started making dinner (aka not paying 100% attention to Laura), which you would think would not be such a big deal since she already had a #2 and
just peed before he got home. But, no, when I came down she had a poo squished up in her underwear and a pee leak all down her leg. Ugggghhhh. Should have just put a diaper on her, I guess, if no one could watch her.
Day 3
Laura is starting to show signs of resistance to sitting on the potty. I'm pretty sure she can tell at least some of the times when she has to pee, because she has resorted to hiding. Not a good sign. And today when she started peeing on the floor and I quickly brought her up to the toilet she started crying. So... I guess she isn't into it. And we can't push it. It has to be something that she wants to do. So, she is back in diapers and everyone is happy again. Except our washer, who thought it might be getting a break from washing diapers. I guess we will try again in a little while, maybe with a little potty next time so she can "do it herself". I was really hoping I could get away without using one of those.